When the news broke about Josh Duggar’s membership on Ashley Madison, I honestly cannot say I was surprised. My heart absolutely broke for Anna and those kids, but the fact that Josh had made these choices did not surprise me.
No, I don’t just assume that every man goes out looking for an affair, or that every man would pay money to try to find one. But given his history and how his family reacted in the course of that history, it could almost be expected that he is addicted to pornography and being unfaithful to his wife.
It’s also not surprising that he reportedly listed the following in his “wants” on his Ashley Madison profile:
“Experimenting with sex toys”
“Girl Next Door”
Can we talk about sex for a moment, here? No, I mean, seriously, can we just talk about sex. It’s not like it’s a big secret.
But, there are still groups of people who act like sex is some big secret. The problem with acting like sex is some big bad secret is that you end up with people who are, essentially, sexually dysfunctional, afraid to embrace their desire, and slinking away to sites like Ashley Madison where they can crave all they want and at least feel normal.
In fact, if I were allowed to guess, my guess would be that many of the users on Ashley Madison are conservative Christians. Here’s why: Continue Reading…