Perhaps, like me, you’ve caught yourself saying these things over the past week: “Well, it’s not as bad as what she’s going through, so it doesn’t really matter.” “I got myself into this mess, so I have no right to complain.” “It’s not going to change anything, so why even care.” I’ve come to a realization over the last few months.  We can be ashamed of many things.  Even our own pain. I actually started this post back in November, in light of the terrorist attacks in Paris.  It sat unfinished for a while, that is until I found myself in a place of hurt.  Nothing in my life compares…