Porn and Marriage: How Do I Tell My Husband I Struggle With Porn?
We're winding down the Porn and Marriage series here and I'm going to close it out by talking directly to the wives, then the husbands (next week) and then summarizing…
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The Mistakes We Make With Accountability
Ask any group helping people overcome a struggle with porn and you'll probably hear them talk about the importance of accountability. Even Christian organizations…
Sharing Your Story with Family: Thoughts on Shame, Grace, and Loss
It's a question so many women have: How am I supposed to tell my family? My husband? My kids? My parents? Perhaps you didn't…
Should You Tell Your Parents About Your Porn Problem, and How?
When I speak to others about female porn use in the church, I'm always quick to point out what I call a "generational schism."…
You’ve Shared Your Story and Been Met with Shame: How to Handle a Rejection of Grace
When a reader writes in asking for help with her porn problem, the first thing I tell her to do is tell someone (other…