Should You Tell Your Parents About Your Porn Problem, and How?
When I speak to others about female porn use in the church, I'm always quick to point out what I call a "generational schism." If you took a cross-section of…
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Why God Doesn’t Just Stop You From Watching Porn
At the height of my addiction to pornography, I prayed God would stop me from watching. The process went something like this: I would…
You’ve Shared Your Story and Been Met with Shame: How to Handle a Rejection of Grace
When a reader writes in asking for help with her porn problem, the first thing I tell her to do is tell someone (other…
What Do I Do When I Can’t Find Anyone to Tell?
The first step in breaking free from a struggle with pornography is to tell someone. It's important to remember that's not out of shame.…
Women and Pornography: Three Ways You’re Probably Not Helping
How do you help women who struggle with pornography? It might surprise you that it's really not that hard. It's not necessarily easy either.…