I was unbelievably close to entitling this post "God Doesn't Actually Care About Your Virginity" but figured that wouldn't go over well with those who don't read past the title. Maybe …
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Sex & Singleness
When I was growing up, there were a lot of rules governing how I, as a woman, should interact with members of the opposite sex. It was a joke in …
Masturbation is one of those things Christians don't like talking about. Because if there's one thing that Christians are really good at not talking about, it's sex and anything related …
I was speaking at a college event recently with an anonymous Q & A at the end. One of the questions that came to the panel was this: What should men …
Over the past five years, I have heard more stories of sexual assaults in churches than I ever care to count. Sickening accounts of pastors and leadership taking advantage of …
The holiday season can be hard for those who are single or struggling, mostly because it seems to highlight what we don't have. This Christmas, we are heading to Florida to …
Today, I am excited to share a guest post with you. Rebecca Lemke is the author of The Scarlet Virgins: When Sex Replaces Salvation. I value the perspective she brings …
Over the years, perhaps courtesy of the "purity" movement, sex has become a little bit like fight club. What's the number one rule about fight club? We don't talk about fight …
The fundamental argument of the purity culture is that sex is meant to be enjoyed within the confines of a committed marriage. Sexual activity of any form outside of that …
