Tag Archives: lust

Can Porn Help Women with Female Sexual Dysfunction?


I had heard of pornography being a form of ‘treatment’ before.  In high school I was even exposed to the idea of it being research.  A classmate of mine, who was 17 at the time, was attending a college English class.  The professor put in a video and started playing [...]

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When the Bible is Your Porn


I got over Song of Solomon a while ago.  It is easy for me to hold that up as a beautiful representation of God-honoring sexuality.  Recently, I started reading a new translation of the Bible, and I must say: There’s a lot of sex in the Old Testament. And it’s [...]

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Porn is Like Potato Chips: Stop Before You Eat the Whole Bag


Porn is like potato chips.  Seriously.  Let me explain. Remember the old Pringles commercials?  ”Once you pop, you just can’t stop.” Or the slogan for Lays potato chips: Bet you can’t eat just one. Maybe you are watching what you eat but walk by a friend with a handful of [...]

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When Discouragement is Your Fast-Track to Lust


Recently, I wrote about four areas of weakness for many of the women who write Beggar’s Daughter: Bored.  Discouraged.  Lonely.  Stressed. It’s important to know your moments because that will also help you know part of the anatomy of your struggle.  For instance, if boredom is a weak moment to [...]

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The Questions Porn Addicts Ask, and the One They Should Be Asking


I get asked a lot of questions.  They aren’t usually about me, they are usually questions another woman is asking about herself.  I just so happen to be in the room, and she is asking me to answer. A couple weeks ago, I spoke at Union University in Tennessee.  I [...]

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