Author Archives: Jessica

Redirect

Letting everyone know that this blog has moved to purityafterpornography.wordpress.com for now.  I had to move it to a third party site to make it able to handle the website transition.  I attempted a redirect without success, so this is … Continue reading

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Warning: Construction Zone

I apologize for effectively losing the blog for a week.  When I transferred to the new site, it disabled my blog entirely, so I had to switch back, and now have to essentially remodel the site in preparation for launching … Continue reading

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Ch..ch..ch..changes

Yes, I am still here (for the faithful few of you who tolerate those days my life goes crazy and I can’t get here).  I have spent the last couple days working on the new Beggar’s Daughter site.  It is … Continue reading

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I Don’t Deserve Happiness

Do you ever feel that way?  Let me just tell you, it’s a lie. I recently watched a television show that featured a woman who had been separated from her husband for many years.  They no longer lived in the … Continue reading

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An Orgy at Calvary

I know.  Scandalous, isn’t it.  The very idea should make us cringe, but this morning I had a chance to visit my old church.  It’s Tuesday morning and, therefore, it is empty.  All of the lights are turned off.  The … Continue reading

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A Message to Men

To the Brotherhood: Truth is, I have spent a few years watching pornography and it has taught me a thing or two about men.  It told me that when you hold open the doors, it’s just so you can stare … Continue reading

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Virginity: One “Problem” that Doesn’t Need Fixing

I am 27 and still a virgin.  What do I do? I couldn’t even tell you how I came across the ‘advice’ column.  It was an online spin off the “Dear Abby” I used to read in the newspaper, and … Continue reading

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The god of self

Let me be very very very (and if that wasn’t enough- let’s throw another one in there– very) clear about something.  Women struggling in pornography should not buy stock in psychobabble, self-reliance, empowerment, pro-feminist jargon. This is in response to … Continue reading

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Traps to a Relapse: Know the Warning Signs

I grew up living with farmers.  We no longer lived on a farm but the lessons from farming were instilled in me at a young age.  Farmers depend a lot on the weather, and as such, have keen eyes, ears, … Continue reading

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Reconciling Guilt

A young woman asked about guilt after falling to pornography.  It was a good question.  A deep question.  A real question. should we feel overly guilty and dirty 24/7, or should we not feel guilty at all. I have been … Continue reading

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