To the Brotherhood: Truth is, I have spent a few years watching pornography and it has taught me a thing or two about men. It told me that when you hold open the doors, it’s just so you can stare … Continue reading
Author Archives: Jessica
Redirect
Letting everyone know that this blog has moved to purityafterpornography.wordpress.com for now. I had to move it to a third party site to make it able to handle the website transition. I attempted a redirect without success, so this is … Continue reading
Warning: Construction Zone
I apologize for effectively losing the blog for a week. When I transferred to the new site, it disabled my blog entirely, so I had to switch back, and now have to essentially remodel the site in preparation for launching … Continue reading
Ch..ch..ch..changes
Yes, I am still here (for the faithful few of you who tolerate those days my life goes crazy and I can’t get here). I have spent the last couple days working on the new Beggar’s Daughter site. It is … Continue reading
I Don’t Deserve Happiness
Do you ever feel that way? Let me just tell you, it’s a lie. I recently watched a television show that featured a woman who had been separated from her husband for many years. They no longer lived in the … Continue reading
An Orgy at Calvary
I know. Scandalous, isn’t it. The very idea should make us cringe, but this morning I had a chance to visit my old church. It’s Tuesday morning and, therefore, it is empty. All of the lights are turned off. The … Continue reading
Virginity: One “Problem” that Doesn’t Need Fixing
I am 27 and still a virgin. What do I do? I couldn’t even tell you how I came across the ‘advice’ column. It was an online spin off the “Dear Abby” I used to read in the newspaper, and … Continue reading
The god of self
Let me be very very very (and if that wasn’t enough- let’s throw another one in there– very) clear about something. Women struggling in pornography should not buy stock in psychobabble, self-reliance, empowerment, pro-feminist jargon. This is in response to … Continue reading
Traps to a Relapse: Know the Warning Signs
I grew up living with farmers. We no longer lived on a farm but the lessons from farming were instilled in me at a young age. Farmers depend a lot on the weather, and as such, have keen eyes, ears, … Continue reading
Reconciling Guilt
A young woman asked about guilt after falling to pornography. It was a good question. A deep question. A real question. should we feel overly guilty and dirty 24/7, or should we not feel guilty at all. I have been … Continue reading